Limited Edition Andy Warhol inspired Dom Perignon

Christmas time is here. Trying to figure out what to give that person that has everything? May I suggest a bottle of Limited Edition Andy Warhol inspired Dom Perignon?

Dom Perignon, the makers premium champagne is produce by the champagne house Moet  & Chardon. A prestige champagne "Dom P" was first released for sale in 1936. 

 Dom Perignon commissioned the Design Laboratory at Central Saint Martin's School of Art and Design to re-invent the bottle using Andy Warhol as inspiration. The three bottle collection pays homage to pop artist Warhol's use of color play with red, blue, and yellow labeling. Each bottle goes for about $150.

This is a "refined" baller status champagne. Not as flashy as Cristal or Pierre Jouet; Dom Perignon is for a more sophisticated palette.

This week's HOTNESS: James Bond

James Bond is so hot! I’m not talking any one of the six actors who have played Bond in particular; I mean the ageless icon! We first met him in 1962 when he appeared in “Dr. No”. After 48 years of international intrigue, Bond, James Bond is sexy as ever.

Here are the official Bond portraits of each of the actors who have played Bond:

Sean Connery

George Lanzenby

Roger Moore

Timothy Dalton

Pierce Brosnan

Daniel Craig

James Bond is so hot is because he is the epitome of a gentleman. He always treats a woman like a lady and has an appreciation for the finer things in life. He is a world traveler who can wear a tux unlike any other.

Seen & Heard: RHOA Kim Zolciak is preggers and still smoking

So if you are an avid viewer of the the Real Housewives of Atlanta, you might remember when Kim met Atlanta Falcon's player Kroy Biermann  at Sheree Whitfield's "Atlanta's Dancing with The Stars" charity performance.  Kim, 32 and Kroy, 25 apparently hit it off because the RHOA recently confirmed she is almost 4 months pregnant by him.

Kim and Kroy in Life & Style magazine

Way to go Kim. Guess she had to keep the pipeline of sponsorship flowing somehow since it looked like her business tycoon boyfriend, "Big Poppa" Lee Najjar was never going to actually divorce his wife. Getting pregnant by the young Kroy who was a 2008 fifth round draft pick and who's contract is about $400,000 a year will probably not keep her in platinum and Prada the way that "Big Poppa" did, but he has potential and I think she may actually really dig this guy!

And perhaps Kroy can offer Kim some direction. Let's start with smoking while pregnant and in public. Kim this is a "No No"! Not only should you not smoke while pregnant, you shouldn't be caught doing it in public where anyone with a camera phone can catch you! Click here for story--> Kim Zolciak still smoking.

WTF Friday: Black Friday 2010

Shopping on Black Friday is as traditional as turkey and football on Thanksgiving. People line up hours before the doors even open at places like Best Buy and Macy's to be the first one in the store. Some people miss dinners with their families to camp out in the stores parking lot. WTF?! Take a look at the scene at an Indiana Tagert store last night:


 



I love shopping...but really? For Target? Is it really worth missing time with loved ones, and a great meal to line up to be first in when Target opens? Now if this was the scene at Neiman Marcus or the Gucci store maybe...but it's Target! America we must get our priorities in order!

The cougar and the cub

It seems as I get older the guys that hit on me become younger! At first I was resistant, thinking that a younger man would lack the maturity it takes to date me, but then I reconsidered…a lot of older guys lack maturity too. I often thought that an older woman dating a younger man spoke to her lack of maturity as well.

My mother (who is jokingly calls herself a cougar) typically dates men who are substantially younger than she is. Both of my brothers are in relationships with women who are older than them. And my closest friends date younger guys exclusively.

What is the attraction between the younger man and the older woman? Is it because the cougar offers the maternal instinct that a cub desires? Is it that women are broadening their horizons much like men have been doing for years? I am starting to embrace this cougar thing. Younger men seem to have less baggage and are fun to be around. Since the average women reaches her sexual peak in her forties, and men in their twenties; does it just make sense that more couples are finding that they are most compatible when their ages correlate with their sexual peaks? 

I've opened my mind to the possibility that this cougar concept can actually work, but here's a few items that need to be considered:

• Is he over 21? If not there is no need for further consideration. An adult woman must be able to enjoy adult activities with an adult man. For example if he's 19, you two can't share a glass of champagne or get into a night club together.
• Is he established? I can't be patient while a young guy catches up. He'll need his own place because I can't be comfortable hanging out with him at his parents house. He needs to be done with college because I can't float anyone's tuition bill. He needs gainful employment because my expectations of him are the same as if he were older so going out and taking trips should not cause a financial strain on either one of us.
• How does he handle his business? If he blows his money on video games and candy while his real bills pile up; he is not a viable candidate for HiYelaGurl's cougar club.

As long as the cub is a mature adult I guess there isn't anything wrong with a cougar and a cub being together. Its gonna take some getting used to for me to be comfortable with dating younger men myself. I guess I just need the right young man to convince me it's a good idea. . .

Out & About in Detroit

I love dressing up! This time of year is the perfect excuse for me to put on a great dress and fantastic pair of shoes and get out on the town. Here is a few of my most recent social engagements:

The Ambassador Magazine “Red Dress”” Party at the Hamilton Room in Birmingham, MI. November 11, 2010 – Ambassador Magazine, Detroit’s premier ‘lifestyle’ magazine highlights the best in luxury that Detroit has to offer. This particular event was to launch their upcoming Winter/Holiday issue.  Let’s look at a few pictures.

HiYelaGurl Red Carpet Arrival

The Hamilton Room is a beautiful venue!

The bar

Qiana Davis and myself

Qiana Davis Red Carpet Arrival

The “Little Black Dress” Charity Gala benefiting Haven House at the Townsend Hotel in Birmingham, MI. November 19, 2010 – This event is held annually at different venues around the Detroit area. The beautiful came out to have a good time and show their support for Haven.

Red Carpet Arrival

J. Lee Red Carpet Arrival

Myself with J. Lee

Party goers partaking in casino style gaming

Detroiters came out for a great cause

What's a little black dress without hot shoes?

Monique Smith’s Fabulous 23^rd Birthday Extravaganza at Ignite in the MGM Casino in Detroit, MI. November 20, 2010 – Young Detroit socialite, Monique Smith celebrated her birthday in a big way with champagne and sushi appetizers at one of Detroit’s hottest venues. Many came out to wish Monique a happy birthday.

Birthday girl Monique Smith and myself

Monique with a few of her guests

Monique Smith at her table

A great time was had by all!

Keep checking my blog for fabulous events and recaps!

The Week’s HOTNESS Edition: Soul Singer Dwele

If you know me, you know I have a jones for soul music! One of my very favorite soul singers is Dwele. Detroit native Andwele Gardner first gained recognition for singing the hook on Slum Village’s “Tainted” single.  His solo albums include “The Rize”, “Subject”, “Some Kinda…”, and “Wants…World...Women…”.  He was also featured on Kanye West’s “Flashing Lights” single, and more recently on Kanye’s “Power” single. Here are a couple of pictures for your viewing enjoyment:

His “Some Kinda…” album is my personal favorite. I can listen to it from start to finish!  Let’s look at the single “Weekend Love” from that album:

Did you listen to the lyrics? Super sexy right?

Dear future husband: If you want to surprise me at our wedding, please have Dwele sing “Old Lovas” to us! If it is Dwele himself who is to be my future husband (shameless plug), please be prepared to sing this song to me at the wedding, on our honeymoon, at the birth of our first child, and all our anniversaries…

*I would love to sing a duet with him*

Follow Dwele on twitter at @TheRealDwele!

The Code

I guess by now all of us have heard that Desperate Housewives actress Eva Longoria and her NBA husband Tony Parker are splitting up. The details are unfolding but so far it seems that Tony had been carrying on with his former teammate Brent Barry’s wife, Erin. The two couples are friends and have been known to hang out together. This is totally against “The Code”.

Tony Parker, Eva Longoria, Erin Barry, and Brent Barry

The Code - Thou shall not covet the following (not limited to):

Neighbor’s Wife

Teammate/Colleague/Friend’s Wife

Wife’s Sister/Cousin/Mother/Best Friend

Brother/Cousin’s Wife

The point of “The Code” is that there are certain boundaries and standards that should be adhered to when it comes to love and relationships. Some things you just don't do!

Both couples are in the process of divorce in the midst of the scandal.

WTF: Incarceration, where the famous go to get away.

If you are rich and famous and need to go away to clear your mind, incarceration may be a perfect vacation destination for you. Though I have never been, I am thinking it is something like an exclusive resort the way that celebs flock to it!

Rapper Gucci Mane last made arrangements to go back to incarceration exactly one day after coming off an incarceration getaway.  Rapper T.I. couldn't even complete a full promotional tour before itching to get both he and his wife Tiny a ticket to incarceration. Lil Wayne just got back from an incarceration trip; wonder how soon it will be before he goes back? Singer Lyfe Jennings just went back for his second extended stay. And there's a particular incarceration place in Maricopa County, AZ that DMX likes so much that today he was sent back for his sixth stay! Other rappers like C-Murder like it so much he's never coming home!

What's so great about incarceration as a spot to vacation? Is it that the pressures of freedom become too much for the rich and famous that they go to incarceration for rest and relaxation? Socialites, Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie even vacationed there briefly. Even Martha Stewart has had a suite at incarceration. Lindsay Lohan has been trying her hardest to gain entry into the exclusive incarceration resort for years to no avail. What else does Lindsay have to do to be allowed access to an urban minimum security condominium complex that boosts cement and steel architecture and minimalist decor?

Check out the incarceration vacation photo gallery:

DMX

Lil Wayne

Lindsay Lohan

Martha Stewart

Lyfe Jennings

T.I.

Lil Kim

Yeah. . . looks like an interesting place to visit but I personally can not afford to go on an incarceration getaway. My readers would miss me too much!

What's wrong with signing a pre-nup? I'm going to tell you what's right with it!

Recently, while in a discussion with a couple of financially secure guys the topic of pre-nuptial agreements came up. Being the only female in the mist I was asked would I ever sign a pre-nup. My answer was: Absolutely.

I'm sure that my answer broke all kinds of woman laws, but allow me an opportunity to explain myself.

I think pre-nuptial planning is a good idea just as I do family planning, financial planning, and estate planning. I think people don't fully understand the purpose of a pre-nuptial agreement: It is a contractual document that spells out what will happen in the event that the marriage dissolves.

Ladies the good news is, if the agreement is not to your liking you basically have two options:

• Don't sign it
• Counter offer

You are only as good as what you negotiate. The contract can provide for you generously. If you don't like the terms, then have them revised. The point is lack of an open mind when it comes to pre-nuptial planning has GREED written all over it.

With all that being said, it is truly despicable when the contract is presented days or even minutes before the couple is to walk down the aisle.This document can be for the protection of both parties and should be discussed and agreed upon prior to wedding planning. My advice, don't be greedy and evaluate the situation intelligently!

Spa Getaways Anyone?

Living a fabulous life is hard work! Keeping up with family, a career and social obligations can be very draining. Every now and then this HiYela little lady needs to escape from it all. One of my favorite ways to get away from it all is to go to a resort spa.  For those whose budgets go beyond 'Calgon Take Me Away' bubble baths, spa pampering is an experience that both men and women should treat themselves to.

Here are a few spas worth trying:

InterContininental Montelucia Resort & Spa – Scottsdale, Arizona www.joyaspa.com :

A magical and transformative atmosphere that evokes feelings of mystery, depth, and intrigue, Joya Spa aspires to fulfill your deepest wishes and profoundly and positively enhance your life. A spacious environment reminiscent of Morocco and Andalusia, the inviting lounges, opulent balcony suites, and warm walkways filled with intricate light shadows entice you to visit every corner of Joya Spa. Whether experiencing a meditative moment in the Hammam, lounging on the terrace gazing at the mountain, or inspired by exotic music with a cool drink in hand, you’ll feel on every level … that anything is possible.

The Lodge – Woodloch, PA www.thelodgeatwoodloch.com :

Indulge your senses in a body, mind and spirit spa retreat that awakens and refreshes you. At The Lodge at Woodloch, you will enjoy a personalized spa vacation experience that allows you to relax, renew and rediscover your essential self. Feel your worldly burdens melt away as you refresh and rejuvenate at The Lodge - a spa vacation destination of peace, calm and balance. Relax and unwind as your body, soul and spirit are awakened and transformed. Bring a special companion for customized spa treatments for two - a soothing, healing and romantic experience that promotes synergy and togetherness. The Lodge also offers a variety of spa and golf vacation packages and group retreats to further enhance your journey to relaxation and romance.

Spa Montage at Montage Resort –Laguna Beach, CA www.montagelagunabeach.com :  

The vibrant artists’ colony of Laguna Beach where mountains and sea converge brings all aspects of your life into artful balance. Your personal journey is the masterful canvas that is transformed by our Art of Spa. The ocean plays a key role in achieving personal balance. Breathing deeply of the ocean air and watching the mesmerizing waves relieve stress and can enhance feelings of calm and inner peace. And the ocean’s bounty, including mineral-rich seaweed and salts, infuses our botanical treatment products with elements the body lacks to renew, refresh and boost the body’s immune system.

* All descriptions courtesy of www.spavelous.com *

See more fantastic spa destinations at www.spavelous.com. Can't afford to get away? Check www.spafinder.com for spas in your area.

My High Yella Baby Girl... a poem by my Mother

She’s my baby girl !

After many years she came along

Little did I know at the time

That she’d be so beautiful and so strong

Keep in mind that I am partial

Cause she’s my child, of course

I consider myself a very proud mother

Fore I am her life source

Not only do I love my child

I like her a whole lot too

She has a special way of seeing life

And I respect her point of view

Spiritual beliefs help define her

Her values are easy to see

My adorable baby girl

Is all I hoped she would be

High yella, that she was

With pretty straight brown hair

She had the cutest little dimpled cheeks

And skin that was truly fair

As my little one grew older

It became obvious to me

That she would have a boundless spirit

And a great personality

Education enhanced her intellect

Not to brag about her on that

But she converses most assuredly

With knowledge and with fact

She is also very generous

Extremely giving and kind

She displays a thoughtful and gentle soul

This high yella child of mine

I love her sense of humor

A trait I find very neat

I’m sure, as she travels here and there

She brings joy to those she meets

I admire her fashion sense

It reflects the latest trends

She can tell you all the current styles

For both women and for men

Her socialite side is awesome

She’s a jetsetter thru and thru

She’s aware of all upcoming events

And she knows just who is who

Looking at concluding this poem

There is so much more to say

I’ll end by saying she’s my BFF

My best friend in every way

by HiYelaGurl's Mommy

Basketball Wives cover Hype Hair. Plus a proposal?

So you want to have hair like your favorite Basketball Wives cast member?  Now here is your chance. The ladies of VH1’s Basketball Wives are on the newest cover of Hype Hair magazine. See how they get their tresses camera ready!

The cover also introduces four new cast members: Juli Richmond, Kimberli Russell, Tami Roman, and Ashley Walker. Noticeably absent is Gloria Govan.

In other news, looks like one of the Basketball Wives might be moving over to the spin off Football Wives. Evelyn Lozada has just received a proposal from none other than Chad ‘Ocho Cinco’ Johnson of the Cincinnati Bengals and VH1’s “The Perfect Catch” reality show. The ring is reportedly 10 carats of diamond and platinum perfection. The two confess that they met on twitter, however, I distinctly remember the basketball wives going to a Ocho Cinco party on season one of the show. Perhaps it was destiny that brought the together or maybe good PR people. 

Hope it works out. Chad has a history of giving away rings. Remember the ring he gifted to his dance partner Cheryl Burke when he was on Dancing with the Stars?

Evelyn Lozada tweeted a picture the ring:

The new season of Basketball Wives premiers Dec. 12^th! Log into www.jocksandstilettojill.com for weekly recaps on both Basketball Wives and Football Wives!

It's a girl for Ne-Yo and "bestfriend" Monyetta Shaw!

R&B producer/singer and "bestfriend" Monyetta Shaw welcome baby girl Madilyn Grace into the world late Friday night. Both mother and child are doing well despite the baby coming almost six weeks early.

Ne-Yo took to twitter to profess his love for the new baby, saying "She's healthy and happy. Feels like I'm in luv for the first time...Welcoming that lil' girl to the world last night defined for me what 'willing to kill and die for' truly means. My world, my life, all hers."

Ne-Yo left a charity event to be there for the birth of his daughter. Congratulations to the couple on this blessing!

Seen & Heard: From Video Chick to Socialite Wife

It has come to my attention that a certain Dallas wife once had a career as a music video vixen. This might come as a shock to some because this woman carries herself in a manner that would lead one to believe she is above parading around in a rap video.

Let's see if she can be identified in this LL Cool J video for "Doin It":

Haven't guessed?

Deion & Pilar Sanders

It is none other than Pilar Sanders of VH1's Football Wives and wife of former NFL'er and MBL'er Deion Sanders.

Wonder what the high society of Dallas thinks of this?

WTF Friday: The Basketball/Football Wives

Ok reality show watchers, just when you thought you had seen it all, the ladies of VH1's Basketball Wives are back for Season 2 and they are more off the chain than ever before. See the super trailer here:

Click Here----->  Basketball Wives Season 2 Super Trailer

Did you recognize a familiar face in the super trailer? That's Tami Roman (ex-wife of former NBA player Kenny Anderson) of Real World Los Angeles! She brought the drama 20 years ago and she's still setting people straight. It looks like she clashes with most of her cast mates. Not sure what all the fuss was about (guess I'll need to tune in to find out).

In other wives drama… looks like Chanita Foster (Detroit native and my favorite football wife) from the Football Wives show is feed up with Pilar Sanders! While doing a radio interview in Chicago, Chanita went off, live on air:




Tell 'em how you really feel Chanita!

Sadly it doesn't look like the Football Wives in Dallas offer the same allure as the Basketball Wives of Miami. The ratings are not as good as expected. The real drama happens when cameras aren't rolling. If you want know more about the 'Wives' and all the drama, check out Stiletto Jill's weekly recaps at www.jocksandstilettojill.com.

100 Styles and Running is changing the sneaker game!

So I just got my hot little HiYela hands on the 100 Styles and Running 2011 Look Book!

Fellas, if you are not familiar with 100 Styles you should be! The innovative sneaker company vows to change the game. They have exactly what they advertise: 100 Styles…

100 Styles infuses classic and indie appeal to come up with edgy sneakers that look good with a t-shirt or a button down and blazer. They vow their sneakers will transcend any wardrobe! This sneaker 'boutique' has really impressed me. I love to see a man in a stylish pair a sneakers! Guys step your sneaker game up!

Recently the sneaker line has introduced a new logo and there is a contest being held to give the logo a name. Enter here: namethekid@100styles.com. Contest ends Friday, November 12^th. Don't pass up a chance to win a pair of hot new sneakers!

Below are three of my favorite styles.



Oliver in Red. $91.00



 

Lowell in Chocolate. $132.00


 

Abbot in Blue Suede. $82.00

For more information, or to place an order:

www.100Styles.com

www.FaceBook/100Styles

www.twitter.com/100Styles

Being the shoe lover that I am, I'd be remise if I didn't put my readers on to the latest and hottest! Thanks to my friends over at 100 Styles and Running for the advanced view of their newest collection!